be you.

Some food for thought.

Maybe the connection you are longing to have is with yourself. Getting to know yourself.  Trusting yourself.  As a cancer you are super protective of yourself and your heart. And you long to have that connection in your life. Yet sometimes cancers are soo hidden in their shell protecting themselves they miss the chances to connect.  And sometimes hidding is really hidding from yourself...

Also quit allowing old connections to compete with new ones. Old ones are ghosts, and although they were great at one time, there is a reason you broke up.  Unfortunately our memory tends to block out the bad and only remember the good.  But don't let the synthetic good cloud the connection with new people. 

Quit over thinking it all! Get out of your head and into the now! Life happens, be present. you can't be present when you are constantly in your head!!!

Don't compromise yourself!! Don't go out with someone you don't want to....Attention is nice. Attention is great. Feeling wanted rocks. But feeling wanted by the wrong person, isn't nice or great, and doesn't rock! If feels pained, and difficult. Friends and lovers shouldn't feel difficult. Yes there will be difficult times. But a relationship shouldn't feel forced. If it does it wasn't meant to be! Stop trying soo hard.

Get to know you.
Be you.
Be honest with yourself.
Be open to new friends and opportunities.
Still being you.
Create new opportunities to make new friends.
Let the past be in the past.
Be you.

It will happen when you live it! Be you!

PS this was written for someone who shares my birthday. and well I guess I can learn a bit from it too!